Dorothy Murphy

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Great-grandmother | 1934 - 2008

Great-grandmother killed in accident who lived for her family

Great-grandmother Dorothy Murphy, who was killed in a collision with a lorry on 21 July, 2008, "lived for her family," her devastated relatives said.

The children of 74-year-old Mrs Murphy, from Goxhill in Lincolnshire, said their beloved mother was adored by her family and friends and would be missed by everyone who had the good fortune to know her.

Mrs Murphy, who died tragically after the collision in Barton-Upon-Humber's Market Place, was proud matriarch to four children, 16 grandchildren and six great-grandchildren.

Mrs Murphy's daughter Nicole Keane said she would miss her mother every day.

"She would talk forever, anywhere she went she'd get chatting and she never had a bad word to say about anyone," she said.

"She'd often get the bus to Barton, and she'd take chocolate bars for the bus driver and the man at the bank.

"She loved to read as well, anything about history, she loved learning about kings and queens - she hated reading romance though.

"After she retired, what she really loved was her garden. I talked to her on the day she died and she told me about her chickens. She wanted me to see them."

She said her mother had visited Disneyland with her family in 2007 and had refused to let her age stop her going on any of the rides.

Her son Mark Murphy, who shared a home with his mother as well as his wife and four children, said she was a "wonderful mother."

"Her family really were her life, her children, grandchildren, and her great grandchildren, she was a wonderful woman," he said.

"She was so independent. She split up from my dad in 1966 and she was determined to work and bring us up on her own, and she did - we will be forever grateful for having her.

"All the kids loved her, but my youngest daughter Hannah in particular was like her shadow. They will all miss her."

Mr Murphy said his mum, a Mormon, who was a member of the church of Jesus Christ of Latter Day Saints, was well known at the church.

"They called her the lollipop lady. She'd take a bag of lollies to church, and kids and even the adults would all queue up afterwards to get one."

Your Memories

I am so proud to say that this great lady was my mum. I have had the blessing to have been her son for 45 years and have had the added blessing of having mum live with me, Zoe and our four children Isaac, Noah, Miriam and Hannah for the past four years.
She has shown so much love and kindness to me over the years, she has shown me how to work hard, laugh, serve others, be selfless, put family first, pray, thank God the list goes on, I will be forever grateful to her and will try to carry on the example she set.
She lived for her four children Shaun, Nicola, Karen and me Mark. She has sacrificed so much and asked for nothing in return. We will always love her and look forward to the day when we will meet her again and be able to throw our arms around her again and tell her how much we love her.
One of God's angels has returned home and heaven will be a better place for it. LOVE YOU MUM XX
Mark Murphy — 25.07.2008
I first met Betty Murphy when she was a young wife and mother in 1955, fifty-three years ago.

She was a dedicated mother and grandmother, a constant friend, and a woman of great faith. Her children are a credit to her wisdom, her guidance, and the strength she inculcated into them through the years, often at difficult times.

No stranger to sorrow and distress, I cannot recall ever seeing Betty without a big smile, and without enjoying her cheerful disposition.

Dear Betty - you are sadly missed, but our living faith in God and Jesus Christ have guaranteed for us all a remarkable reunion when we shall meet together as children of our Beloved Father in Heaven.

God bless you, Betty,

In loving memory,

Ronnie & Gay Bray
Ronnie BRAY — 25.07.2008
Mark Murphy and I were friends from young age and so I had the privilege of spending many hours in Betty's company. She was a magnificent woman who clearly lived for her children and her children are blessed to have had such a wonderful Mother. Betty had a great sense of humour and always had a smile on her face regardless of personal challenges - and there were a few! She never had a harsh word to say about anyone and was loved by so many. I am blessed to have known Betty Murphy and she will be dearly missed. In loving memory, Tony Tony Burnett — 25.07.2008

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